“Well, you’re just not that important to me”
This is the message you hear when emails are not acknowledged; phone calls are not returned, especially when you know the person never misses looking at their caller ID.
I’m not talking about SPAM, which we all get in our email or from telephone marketing calls. I am referring to the legitimate communication we have with colleagues, business associates and client relationships.
Professionalism in communication is more than just guidelines for performance in the workplace, but should be standards for living that affect everything we do.
Effective business etiquette practices are not simply what we do in the workplace, but are a lifestyle that transcends the workplace into our daily lives. This lifestyle translates into protocols that have been developed into acceptable business etiquette practices.
Business etiquette is not static, but dynamic, and is always changing to represent actions that display values of respect, kindness and humility. Although acceptable etiquette practices may change, the values on which they are built are lasting and enduring.
Think about that the next time you receive an email or phone message from someone who is saying to you by virtue of the communication – “You are important to me; that’s why I’m reaching out to you.
Do you really want them to feel that they are unimportant?
What are your comments? Let us know what you think.
